I got some bad news last Thursday that a friend of mine - a colleague and co-worker - lost her sudden battle with cancer. My heart is so heavy right now, I'm not sure what to do to make it lighter. She was about my age, and leaves behind a beautiful young daughter.
She and I talked art, since she too was an artist, and writer, and musician. A brilliant woman, a force to be reckoned with, a heart so kind she lived to help others.
In all honesty, I do believe in continuing life after we experience death on earth. I believe vehemently that our journey has only just begun, and experiencing life as a human on this planet is the great kick-off to a long and wondrous journey finding our way back home. I don't know how to justify this feeling, only that I can tell you I just know.
So, when thinking of my friend who has passed into the unknown, I am comforted by my firm beliefs. I am not sad for her. I am sad that she will not see her daughter become a teenager, or a college grad, or married with kids. My friend was a loving, nurturing, caring Mom. And she was a loving, supportive friend. That we will not see her again while we traverse this globe is what's devastating.
A light on this earth was extinguished far far too soon. I will miss her terribly.
Peace be with you my friend, and I will see you once again, down the road, when our paths cross again.


I'm so sorry to hear of your sad loss. She had a lovely friend in you. I hope your happy memories are a comfort at this terrible time.xx
ReplyDeleteThank you so very much, Jess. She touched many lives. I am very grateful to have known her for as long as I did. xoxo
DeleteBelieve that she is still with you in your heart. I too lost a close friend and fellow artist a few years back,far too soon at 58. Often I see her face, or hear her speak, when I'm working...giving me support and encouragement, as she always did.
ReplyDeleteJo, I'm so sorry for your loss, too! No matter how the distance grows from the event, it never goes away and there is always a bitter sweet sense of loss, and gain from the beautiful memories, and spirit in the heart. Thank you. xoxo
DeleteAlisa-my heart aches for your loss. I'm sorry you lost your friend.
ReplyDeleteThank you Teresa. It's a waking moment when you realize someone your age that you know has moved on to the next phase of the journey. I'm sad for those of us left behind. Sudden goodbyes are so hard. And I am thinking of her lovely young daughter at this time. xoxo
DeleteSo sorry for your loss hugs and prayers
ReplyDeleteThank you Isabel. xoxo
DeleteI'm so sorry for your loss, Alisa. Let me know if I can help with anything at all.
ReplyDeleteThank you Laurie! I appreciate it. Her memorial is this Sunday. xo
DeleteYour post is so moving and I love your perspective on where we are now, and where we will be when we again cross paths with those we've lost. I'm so sorry for your loss, Alisa.
ReplyDeleteThank you Marjie. I appreciate your kinds words. xo
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